Men take notes…
http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=126601375420&ref=mf
[I'm hoping people are able to access this, couldnt find the video on youtube].
Men take notes…
http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=126601375420&ref=mf
[I'm hoping people are able to access this, couldnt find the video on youtube].
cant see the video at work, but since when did you become a husband trainer?! haha
Never said I was one.
Watch it when you get home, its awesome.
lol i thought this was gonna be a khitaab on being a good husband or something! I like
lol its ze awesome. I told you so. and oye! I can be fun sometimes too!
lol posting a video doesnt make you fun! phuleez!
Are you trying to imply im not fun?!!! :@
you implied it yourself, i just took your word for it!
Hahahaha! The video’s ace!
I know
If only all men were like that
Life would be so much easier!
rriiiighhhttt!! change the men, the women are fine the way they are, nice and psycho?! i think its time the female gender did a little, no, a lot, of self reflection
No, Women are nice and smart.
Whatever man, we’re perfect mashaAllah, its the male gender that needs a lot of self reflection!
i smell bullshit !
lol, i just shared that on my fb profile
haha, yeah i saw.
A muslim womn who is smart(that is aware of Shariah) will never wish for such husband otherwise there will be no blessings of Allah upon those women who try TO CONTROL their husband by every mean. As Allah explained in Surah Nisa.
“Men are (meant to be righteous and kind) guardians of women because God has favored some more than others and because they (i.e. men) spend out of their wealth. (In their turn) righteous women are (meant to be) devoted and to guard what God has (willed to be) guarded even though out of sight (of the husband). As for those (women) on whose part you fear ill-will and nasty conduct, admonish them (first), (next) leave them alone in beds (and last) beat or separate them (from you). But if they obey you, then seek nothing against them. Behold, God is most high and great. (4:34)
If a wife understands her boundary and the man(the husband) understand his responsiblities then Allah showes His blessings otherise life just becomes hell for both. A woman should understand that Allah has made man a guardian or Ameer of the woman. Similarly man should not abuse the power and tries his best to keep the things smooth.
Err… helping around the house once in a while is not ‘controlling the husband’.
The Prophet sallalalhu alayhi wasallam would help around the house and do his own work, like mend his own clothes.
Purple, I was referring the behavior of the wife with Husband. Since when Ayesha(RA) and other wives did this with the Prophet(saw) adn threw clothes on Him?
I don’t know about throwing clothes, but there are ahadeeth which show us that even the Wives of the Prophet sallalahu alayhi wasallam would get angry with him. Some of them would talk back with him and others would not speak to him for the whole day even.
I’m not saying it is the correct behaviour or acceptable. Just that it happens sometimes.
I really agree with this part of your previous post though:
If a wife understands her boundary and the man(the husband) understand his responsiblities then Allah showes His blessings otherise life just becomes hell for both. A woman should understand that Allah has made man a guardian or Ameer of the woman. Similarly man should not abuse the power and tries his best to keep the things smooth.
getting angry and getting batameez are two different things.